RECALLING DOMESTIC VIOLENCE INCIDENCES IN CROSS RIVER STATE AND HOW TO CURB IT

Blessing UKEREKE

Right now, domestic violence is a pervasive issue in Cross River State. The problem could possibly be traced to the patriarchal society in this part of the world, where men are often seen as dominant figures. This mind-set is perpetuated by cultural and traditional factors, which make it difficult for women to speak out against abuse.

Consequently, there have been several incidents of domestic violence in Cross River State. For instance, in the year 2022, a woman in Calabar metropolis never reported to the police before she was allegedly killed by her husband. The police were only informed after her death. In the year 2020, a man in Calabar complained of being beaten by his wife but he was laughed at for allowing a woman to beat him up. Also, In 2021, a woman reported a case of domestic violence meted on her by her husband to her pastor but was reportedly dismissed with a comment: "Just leave him!" Later, her neighbour reported the case to the police. The police arrested the husband but he was not charged to court because the woman was unwilling to testify against him.

 Similarly, in 2018, a girl complained to the police about being frequently beaten by her boyfriend. The police arrested the said boyfriend but later released him due to the victim's refusal to press charges. Again, in 2017, a woman reported a case of domestic violence to the police. However, the police did not arrest her husband because she chose to settle the matter at the village. There are many other cases too numerous to mention.

It is imperative to state that domestic violence is not gender-centred. Both men and women suffer it. Nonetheless, it can be minimised through consistent awareness campaigns, punishing perpetrators, creating support groups for victims, promoting healthy relationships, encouraging community involvement, improving mental health services, and strengthening laws. These measures can help curb this disturbing practice.

UKEREKE is a final year student at the Department of Mass Communication, University of Calabar. She is on an industrial attachment, with THE BEAGLE NEWS.